Penis size: Does it really matter?
The myth of the "perfect" penis size persists – especially through comparisons with porn. This shows that pleasure has much more to do with feelings, communication, and technique than with centimeters.
What does science say?
In Germany, the average erect penis length is around 14.5 cm . Nevertheless, many men believe that bigger is automatically better. This is completely unfounded – for many women, length is not a decisive factor .
A so-called micropenis is approximately 3 cm in length when flaccid and a maximum of 7 cm when erect. In such cases, practical challenges can arise – for example, the penis may "slip out" more easily during sex. But here, too, communication and technology are key.
The vagina is also different
Vaginas are not standardized. They vary in depth, elasticity, and muscle tone – influenced by age, pelvic floor fitness, and childbirth experiences. During arousal, the vagina becomes deeper and tighter as the cervix lifts and the tissue swells.
The most sensitive area of the vagina is in the first 3–5 cm – and the so-called G-spot is also located at about 4–6 cm. This means that even a smaller penis can reach all relevant zones – and often even more precisely .
Width instead of length?
Many people find the width of the penis more intense than the length—because it exerts more pressure on the vaginal walls. At the same time, very large penises can cause pain, especially if there's a lack of arousal or insufficient lubrication.
Lust tools & tips
- Penis rings can provide more hardness and volume through the blood congestion effect.
- Silicone sleeves increase the thickness – ideal for insecurities or for variety.
- Pelvic floor exercises help women to increase sensation – and become “tighter.”
- Activate your mind's eye: Pleasure begins in the brain. Women can experience orgasms through thoughts alone – without any penetration.
💡 Conclusion
Whether tall, short, fat, or thin: desire arises from mindfulness, curiosity, and communication. If you listen to each other and try out what you like, size ultimately plays a very small role.
Scientifically sexy: Penis size vs. desire – what studies say
- Most of the nerve endings in the vagina are located in the outer third – about 3–5 cm deep.
- The so-called G-spot is not a solid organ, but a sensitive area on the front vaginal wall – about 4-6 cm deep.
- In a study by Indiana University, only 18% of women reported regularly experiencing orgasm during purely vaginal intercourse.
- Clitoral stimulation was crucial for satisfying sex in 75–80% of women.
- According to a survey in Germany, for 85% of women, technique and attention play a greater role than penis size.