Women squirt – this is how it works!
How to learn to squirt – step by step
Squirting is an exciting, yet mysterious, topic for many women. The good news: You can learn how to introduce your body to this experience—with patience, knowledge of your anatomy, and, above all, without pressure.
1. Preparation & Relaxation
Place an absorbent towel beneath you so you feel free and secure. Create a relaxing environment—dim lights, calm music, maybe a warm bath beforehand. Take your time, because squirting doesn't happen "at the push of a button."
2. Slow warm-up
Start with external stimulation—for example, gently massaging the vulva and clitoris. Give yourself at least 10–15 minutes to really get in the mood. Arousal is key, as it fills the erectile tissue in the genital area with blood.
3. Targeted massage of the G-spot
The so-called G-spot is located about 4–6 cm deep in the anterior vaginal wall, toward the navel. Use a curved G-spot vibrator or your fingers in a "come hither" motion. The movement can be rhythmic or wave-like—listen to your body.
4. Combine inside and outside
Many women report that simultaneous internal and external stimulation is more intense. Rabbit vibrators or the combination of a G-spot toy and clitoral stimulation with your hand can be very effective.
5. Pay attention to the urge to urinate
Do you feel like you're about to pee? For many women, this is a sign that they're about to squirt. Go to the bathroom beforehand—it will give you confidence and help you let go.
Now the most important point is relaxation. Don't push against it, but try to consciously give in – through deep breathing or consciously letting go.
6. No pressure to perform
Often, only a small amount of fluid comes out the first time—this is completely normal. Some women squirt regularly, others never. Both are perfectly fine. Squirting is not a measure of good sex—it's just one possible experience.
💡 Conclusion
Squirting can be a liberating experience – if you explore yourself, listen to your pace, and, above all, enjoy trying things out. It's not a must, it's not a goal, but perhaps a completely new feeling.
Product recommendations for your squirting training:
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Rabbit vibrators – intense double play for inside & outside
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G-spot vibrators – specifically shaped for internal massage
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Combi toys – with additional functions such as heat, pulsation or pressure waves
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Waterproof toys – ideal for the shower or bath (and for relaxed cleanup afterwards)
🔍 Myths & Facts about Squirting
| myth | fact |
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| Squirting is urine. | Studies show that squirting fluid contains parts of urine, but also PSA and other secretions from the Skene glands – so it is not a “simple” urine excretion. |
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Only women with certain bodies can squirt. |
Squirting is anatomically possible for many women – but not all. It depends on individual sensations and reactions, not on body shape or "technique." |
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Squirting always means an orgasm. |
No. Squirting can occur even without climaxing—it's a physical reflex, not a guarantee of orgasm. |
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If you can't squirt, you're doing something wrong. |
Wrong. Not every woman experiences squirting, and that's completely normal. It's not a goal, but a possible experience. |
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Squirting must be a lot and squirting. |
What you see in movies is often exaggerated. In reality, the amount varies greatly—sometimes just a few drops, sometimes more. |