Harnesses – Clothing that turns you on
Whether as captivating lingerie, as a strap-on toy, or as an expression of sexual identity – harnesses are no longer just a fetish symbol. They are visually appealing, body-hugging, and incredibly versatile.
From delicate breast harnesses to functional strap-on systems: Harnesses can enhance pleasure, demonstrate dominance, or simply celebrate your erotic self-presentation.
🔍 What is a harness?
A harness is a strap system worn on the body. Depending on the type, it can:
- accentuate the body (e.g. chest, waist, hips)
- serve as a toy holder (e.g. for dildos with strap-ons)
- make a visual or psychological statement – e.g., dominance or devotion
- Harnesses are suitable for all genders and for solo or partner play – in everyday life, BDSM or role play.
What types of harnesses are there?
- Chest harness : Straps that wrap around the chest and upper body – often worn as an erotic accessory.
- Waist/body harness : Around the waist and upper body – visually attractive, can also be worn over clothing.
- Strap-on harness : Used to hold a dildo – for pegging, queer sex, or feminized dominance roles.
- Harness with plug opening or double dildo function : Combines control and simultaneous stimulation.
- BDSM harness : Particularly sturdy, e.g., made of leather – often with D-rings for bondage or leashes.
Who is a harness suitable for?
- For people who want to express desire visually and physically.
- For couples experimenting with role-playing, dominance, or strap-on sex .
- For everyone who puts themselves in the spotlight – sensual, powerful, stylish.
Application & Tips
- Pay attention to the size : Many harnesses are adjustable – but make sure you get the right size.
- Choose material : Leather = firm & dominant, artificial leather = vegan & easy to care for, fabric/silicone = soft & flexible.
- Combinable with toys : When using strap-ons, pay attention to compatibility (e.g. O-ring size, plug opening).
- Pay attention to comfort : Especially during longer sessions, nothing should cut in – good harnesses distribute the pressure.
- Cleaning depending on the material : leather just wipe, fabric or silicone can often be gently washed.
Which harness suits you?
1. You want to set sexy accents?
Chest or waist harness made of imitation leather
“Perfect as an eye-catcher over lingerie – without function, but with impact.”
2. You want toy play with dildos?
Strap-on harness with O-ring holder
“Stable hold for dildos – ideal for pegging or queer sex.”
3. Are you looking for function & fetish?
BDSM harness with D-rings
“For serious play – e.g., with restraints or leash training.”
4. You want to shine solo?
Fashion harness for clubwear or role play
“Erotic statement – also wearable over clothing.”
Our tip:
A harness can turn your toy into a tool, transform you, or simply showcase your erotic attitude. Don't wear it just to impress someone—wear it because it empowers you.